A Good Father is also a Good Man

There are countless bad people in the world, but not a single bad father. There are a couple of exceptions, but we have seen good fathers around us all our lives. As we have seen, no matter what a person is as a human being, as a father, there are always tens.

What does it mean to be a good father? What we generally understand is the one who gives birth and from childhood to the age of twenty-five or thirty, who carries out the responsibility of raising the child without objection. The one who fulfills any whim of the child before it falls to the ground. If necessary, he works tirelessly 24 hours a day to fulfill the wishes of the child. For the child who does not skimp on giving up all the pleasures of life, big or small. The one who does not hesitate to do the hardest work in the world to keep the child happy. The one who keeps the child in his arms all his life.

Suppose a father does everything for the child as described above. That is, he fulfills all the conditions of being a seemingly good father. However, whether he is a good father or not, he beats and abuses his mother and his wife in front of the child for trivial reasons. He was tormented by humiliation all the time, and he used to get up and sit down and eat. Is he still a good father?

We should not forget about the work world of a good father. I agree that a good father needs money to keep his child well. But whether it is to earn money or not, the good father is resorting to dishonest means, taking away the debts of others himself, committing corruption, completely undermining moral values, and does not hesitate to do all the terrible wrongs. Is he still a good father?

It is safe to say that a parent is the biggest role model for a child. The father is the superhero to the child. So from an early age, the child learns and tries to establish within himself what he sees his father doing.

Again the child who has seen from an early age that his father is as kind to him as he is to his aged parents; Who will guarantee that the child will not treat his parents the same when he grows up?

And last but not least, the headline made you think of corrupt, criminal, and morally worthless fathers at work or in the community. Those fathers may also be considered very good to the child. But there is no way to ignore that they are setting a very bad example in front of the child. So if one day their children go astray and enter the dark world, it cannot be considered unusual in any way because they have only done what their good fathers have done before!

So, they can firmly present the belief that a good father cannot be said to be the only one who is merely good to his child. A good father is good to his wife, good to his wife, good to his parents, good to his children, honest to his work, and good to his people. The point is a father who sacrifices himself for the sake of his child and sets an example for his child to follow so that his child will one day become a better person.

In other words, the good father is the one who is the ideal of his child’s honest work, who guides his child to become a good person. So this article will be a humble request to the fathers who are reading today, or who will be fathers in the future: If you want to be a good father, please try to be a good husband, a good child, and a good man.