Does True Love Heal Spiritual Wounds?

Is it possible to build a harmonious relationship between a couple without first solving the internal problems? Many find this question difficult to answer. More recently, however, more and more people are beginning to believe that intimate relationships can heal the wounds of an emotion.

There are many couples in which she has opened up and changed for the better. Could it be a matter of the partner’s sincere desire to make a loved one feel good about him or her?

In conflict situations, many behave as voluntarily as their parents. Nature works in such a way that in adolescence, a person becomes acquainted with gender roles, attitudes towards life, even words and worries from childhood. It’s like observing yourself, and then it becomes noticeable how you suddenly “turn on” parents while sorting things turns. There was nothing to worry about imitating until this image was once played in one’s own family. Before meeting a loved one, if there is any doubt that you have the truth and the right attitude towards life, But after meeting him, you need to realize this as a great opportunity to be free and more intrusive. The closest person carries his own experience, and do not forget that his family was completely different.

Many subconsciously prefer to adapt a person to their ideas. If you recognize this dangerous maya in time and learn to accept one person’s imperfections, it will be much easier to communicate with another person. Often, everything happens according to this scheme: the joy of having a like-minded person (as it seemed at the time) and then the irritation due to the opinion being more or less coincidental. It is worthwhile to try to see yourself through the eyes of a loved one and to realize that you should be as free from the structure of the past as possible. Strong relationships arise from someone who has learned to love the true person with all his desires and preferences, not discovered.

Almost all couples go through a difficult phase of unification. However, if it is pulled, there is discomfort associated with the limitations of freedom in the relationship. All in all, one doesn’t have to breathe for two – it must be clearly understood. The need to connect loved ones with oneself results in internal experiences and problems, a painful lack of tenderness and love. If fate presents a person who is ready to hold his hand, you just need to rejoice and do not take him as a pill from the torment. No one knows how the relationship will develop further. If people can stay together for the last day at the beginning of a relationship, everything can change. For example, one of the two will be offered a job that will take the lion’s share of the time. There will be no alternative but to reconcile with the fact that less attention has been paid to the outside world. The main thing is not to show self-pity but to try to adapt easily to the situation without losing their characteristics.

It often happens that after fusion, one time always prevails, and the other is not his own, but the most powerful lives cannot be reconciled. You must always let a person live with their vision and aspirations. Often, looking back at the failed lives of their parents, many who decide to stay together argue that everything will be different with them. People want to escape the parental family model and believe that their own marriage will save them from childhood misery. However, the past life affects a person very strongly, so it is better to give up everything without hurting oneself by using metaphors like “husband behaves like father treated his mother.” To bring more into your relationship.

Of course, new relationships will not protect you from immediate complications and neuroses. After all, it’s impossible to conclude a “you are, and I will be” agreement. Over time, that is likely to change. They are a side effect of the relationship. After them, everyone opens something new in each other – and so does his whole life.