What is abortion in light of Hellinger’s theory?
Thoughts about abortion create a painful feeling, which can sometimes only be understood and terminated by her physical side of the pregnancy. However, there is convincing evidence of the emotional consequences of abortion for all family members from the family star that Bert Hellinger, the founder of the family star system, came out in public.
It turns out that the family and mankind represent certain integrity, which has its own laws. There are no dead or lost relatives for the clan. Every person, his way of life, leaves his experience for the family and it is extremely valuable to him, whatever this life is from our life position. Each member is valued for one gender; Each person takes his place and is connected to his ancestors and descendants in a certain way.
There are births where the proper arrangement of relationships is built with each other and between generations. People in this genre live happily ever after with minimal problems and tragedy. Their relationships are based on love, respect, the right attitude towards their ancestors, caring for the younger generation, etc. These births develop harmoniously and have a positive experience. However, this rarely happens. We all acknowledge certain violations. It is disrespectful and controversial, not to mention serious mistakes. Violations occur from generation to generation and lead to negative consequences.
What happens in the birth process if a woman has an abortion?
Remember that all the people associated with it, even the dead, are considered part of them for the human race. And the abandoned child acquires the status of a departed and rejected member of the clan. The family rejected it, removing it from memory.
And then began to enforce compensation laws. If the family rejects the child, it does not mean that the family has rejected it and that its fate should somehow be revealed to the next generation. Therefore, abortion negatively affects subsequent children or, in some cases, the next generation of children (grandchildren, great-grandchildren).
It is a fact that a child born after an abortion or a descendant can carry on the experience of having an abortion. He may feel rejected, unnecessary, unreasonable fears and anxieties. And all of this will only be an expression of that feeling that arises in the rejected child.
A child born after an abortion can live the life of someone else, not his own. This is an additional emotional burden that will have a negative impact.
Such difficulties can be solved by special psychiatric work that corrects the broken patterns of the human race.
First, the occurrence of abortion should be recognized as a fault assistant. They try to live it by forgetting it as if it weren’t Second. Second, all the pain and bitterness felt by the pregnant baby must be acknowledged. Otherwise, the pain will find a way out of the situation on its own. Third, compensation must be paid. After acknowledging the truth, repentance helps very well (in orthodoxy, for example, there are even prayers for such children). Compensation under the law of descent may be sincere remorse for the conduct and behavior of any expatriate relative of the child, such as family or other family members, with respect.
Thus the consequences of abortion can be corrected. Anyone who has been through this at least once will never quietly refer to abortion as light and non-violent.